Here are 8 things you should know.

  1. It’s going to be emotional AF… this was something I was not prepared for. My first baby was still a baby. He still needed so much from me. I was filled with so much guilt bringing home a new baby that I was…


Not advice, Just experience!

Insert tik tok trend : “Don’t do it girl” “I’m not going to do it girl, I’m just thinking about it” BAM… “I did it.”

Research

Before I started I did loads of research. Brad Mondo, a famous hair stylist YouTuber being my number one resource.

Biggest…


I used a menstrual cup for the first time and Holy Smokes what a Game changer it was. Why have I been so terrified of these things for so many years? I mean shit, I’m 32 years old and have had my period for like 17 ish years and I’m…


The things you never think you’ll miss…

You know the Katy Perry song, “I Kissed a Girl and I Liked it?” Well; been there, done that. Did I like it? Sure, but not enough for me to consider doing it for the rest of my life. I’m married, to a…


Before having kids I wouldn’t have thought twice about how scary it actually is to find a sitter. Now that I have two young boys, (2 & 1 Years old) I have yet to have someone watch them outside of family. Why? Because it’s scary. …


a memoir

I always thought I’d have all my kids before I’m 30 and then 28 hit and I was like “Oh crap”

After 3 years of marriage that’s when we decided “ok we better get on it.”

I knew I wanted to be a mom I just never really felt that…


I Finally got curated again

My latest curated post was a total flop. I started writing on this platform in 2020. Like many, the pandemic sparked a new interest in writing for me. It’s been fun. It’s also been frustrating. Mostly, it’s been confusing and I don’t understand any of it. …


Have you ever noticed how Mom’s tend to throw the phrase “I love my kids, BUT…” before they complain about their children. Why do we do this? I think we should stop. We have every right to complain. These little humans can be monsters. They test us to our limits…


10 things you should know

Just like many things, being a Stay at Home Mom has it’s pro’s and cons. Before you decide if you too would like to be one, here are 5 things (personal opinions) from both sides (pro & con) you should know.

Pro’s:

I get to raise my boys! I never miss…


So let’s teach our kids how to handle it.

Bullying isn’t going anywhere. As a matter of fact, I think it’s only getting worse with technology. Trying to end bullying is near impossible. So let’s teach our children how to handle the inevitable bullying coming their way.

There are always going to be Bullies.

If you ask your grandparents if they had bullies I bet their…

Shelly Mettling

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